Thursday, September 28, 2006

Don't 'bring it on' yet

I realise that as I write this blog and as a believing Muslim I feel somehow suppressed for the reason that whatever I want to say may not be read or understood correctly. So let me just say this straight-up (again) : I don't intend to change your opinion but I definitely wish to influence it.
I also feel that today Muslims being in the spotlight (even though some of them are in a tight spot) more than ever before, I'm of the opinion that it is a very positive thing. It is an opportunity we need utilize and set the record straight. It's time (and it's now) that we must proactively debate and come to some religious consensus. The first of which must be tolerance for one another. Allow me to explain.

Let's say you're travelling in a train or a bus and you happen to sit next to some lady (from somewhere you have no clue of) who has a little kid that won't stop crying. What will be your response? Are you going to tell the little kid yourself to stop crying or are you going to sit there hoping the kid will listen to his or her parent and stop crying? (I personally would do the third and that is to look for a better seat) But lets say you have only 2 options, which one do you think is better?

Tolerance today is considered as something 'uncool', something you should not give into but I think tolerance is something we haven't given too much thought to. Tolerance cannot be equated with respect. But it sure is something that can sooth the nerves. Something that makes you feel al[-right about yourself be it in a difficult situation or an absolutely hopeless situation.
I don't want to waste time talking about when you need to be tolerant and when you don't. E.g. you see someone trying to steal something or someone harassing someone, don't be a moron and say to yourself 'I have to be tolerant'.

I honestly believe that we have to work a lot on our tolerance and that simply means to shut-up or be silent when something is not going your way. If you think there is truth to what you are saying and the opposite person is not convinced maybe you need to change your approach/style. If he or she is still is not convinced then maybe all you should do is state your point of view and leave it at that. It's the hard thing to do but it's the right thing to do, if you believe in "Right" action.

Saturday, September 23, 2006

What fasting is all about

Muslims all over the world consider Ramadhan as the most sacred month in the Islamic Calendar and it is also known as the 'Month of Fasting'. If you think about life as a journey (driving in a car to be more precise), which I think of as a very good anology then the chapter on 'Servicing and Maintaining your Car' would correspond directly to the idea of fasting. Now fasting is also part of other sacred religions such as Hinduism, Judaism and Christianity, but in Islam (i.e. the way of life for a believing Muslim) it is one of the most important articles of faith.
You fast from sunrise to sunset as a way to purify or purge yourself of bad things like:
1. bad food habits - eating too much, smoking, eating 'paan' or 'supari' or chewing gum
2. bad lifestyle - waking up late, not sleeping on time, boredom, addictions
3. bad company - people who talk crap, back-bite, disrespect or abuse
4. bad thoughts - scheming, fantasizing, anger, jealousy, hate
5. bad actions - lying, cheating, adultery, flirting, idling about

But the question is why for 30 days? Well apart from the evident quranic injunction I feel Ramadhan is like a crash course in belief and patience. 30 days is a significant period of time, enough for anyone to bring about some change in himself/herself. Once you have done that you have trained your body and mind to appreciate the good things in life in a way no radio program or TV jingle can make you realize.

Foreword

I decided to write this blog with the simple intention of attempting to present some of the thoughts I wanted to share about living as a Muslim in this day and age. I realise that it's not going to be something very profound or fascinating to some but as I've always felt the purpose of writing is to express something that might not be apparent or communicated indirectly. Very often people who you know or meet make assumptions about you or your actions and being a Muslim those assumputions border on generalizations and stereotypes. Through this blog I will try my best to give you a clearer picture but beyond that it's the job of the reader to draw any conclusions if so required. This blog is just to present some ideas, rather than to preach or provoke. Feel free to comment or question anything anytime.